People do not have to think alike to think together. It is these differences that grow deeper understandings. When words are spoken from the mind it’s possible to create an even bigger division when expressing points of view. However words spoken from the heart reaches hearts and differences are received as valuable contributions.
Prayerfully considering words when meeting with others can accomplish a lot.
Make every effort to keep yourselves united in the Spirit, binding yourselves together with peace. For there is one body and one Spirit, just as you have been called to one glorious hope for the future